{"id":118099,"date":"2024-07-24T12:02:56","date_gmt":"2024-07-24T12:02:56","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lascrucestoday.com\/magic\/2024\/07\/24\/bad-blood-between-friends-over-whether-or-not-to-play-taylor-swift-song-at-wedding\/"},"modified":"2024-07-24T12:02:56","modified_gmt":"2024-07-24T12:02:56","slug":"bad-blood-between-friends-over-whether-or-not-to-play-taylor-swift-song-at-wedding","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lascrucestoday.com\/magic\/2024\/07\/24\/bad-blood-between-friends-over-whether-or-not-to-play-taylor-swift-song-at-wedding\/","title":{"rendered":"&#8220;Bad Blood&#8221; between friends over whether or not to play Taylor Swift song at wedding"},"content":{"rendered":"<div>\n<figure><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/s3.amazonaws.com\/syndication.abcaudio.com\/files\/2024-07-23\/Getty_TaylorSwiftlongdress_072324.jpg\" alt><figcaption>Noam Galai\/TAS24\/Getty Images for TAS Rights Management <\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>One woman&#8217;s insistence on playing a certain <strong>Taylor Swift<\/strong> song at her wedding has led to a fracturing of a friendship.<\/p>\n<p>According to\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/people.com\/bride-friend-says-she-cant-play-taylor-swift-song-at-her-wedding-8681499\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><em>People<\/em>,<\/a> on the &#8220;True Swifties&#8221; Reddit thread, a friend of the bride asked in a now-deleted post for people to weigh in. It seems the bride wants to play &#8220;Lover&#8221; during the wedding ceremony, and the friend thinks she shouldn&#8217;t because, as she wrote, &#8220;Taylor\u00a0specifically added it to her denial playlist and it would be invalidating that.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>The friend continued, &#8220;We had a fight about this yesterday and we haven\u2019t spoken much since but I love her &#8230; please share your thoughts ASAP.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Taylor&#8217;s &#8220;denial&#8221; playlist was one of several that she created for Apple Music in April to promote<em> The Tortured Poets Department<\/em>.\u00a0 Each one was themed after one of the five stages of heartbreak: denial, anger, bargaining, depression and acceptance.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>The denial playlist, called &#8220;<a href=\"https:\/\/music.apple.com\/us\/playlist\/i-love-you-its-ruining-my-life-songs\/pl.86b27a0f4ccc481288958f5ee3c4d226\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">I Love You, It&#8217;s Ruining My Life<\/a>,&#8221; was described by Taylor as &#8220;a list of songs about getting so caught up in the idea of something that you have a hard time seeing the red flags.&#8221; In addition to &#8220;Lover,&#8221; the playlist includes songs like &#8220;Cruel Summer,&#8221; &#8220;Style,&#8221; &#8220;willow&#8221; and &#8220;Lavender Haze.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Commenters <a href=\"https:\/\/www.reddit.com\/r\/TrueSwifties\/comments\/1e5l6as\/lover_dilemma_need_help\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">mostly agreed<\/a> that it didn&#8217;t matter which playlist Taylor thinks the song belonged on &#8212; what really matters is what &#8220;Lover&#8221; means to the bride-to-be.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Taylor put Lover in her denial playlist, but that was her opinion of the song she wrote,&#8221; noted on commenter. &#8220;She has made it very clear that these songs are ours once they are released so her relationship to the song has nothing to do with your friend&#8217;s relationship to the song.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Another wasn&#8217;t so kind, writing, &#8220;How can you not see this is insane behavior on your part?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Copyright \u00a9 2024, ABC Audio. 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